After settling for a price, to the first thing the taxi driver said when we got into the cab was, "You're one man, why do you have three women?"
From there, Jess created an elaborate back story for us. We're a childless, polygamous family from Canada who have been attending the University of Ghana for two months. Apparently I, along with my other sister wives, are good cooks but we take all of our husband's money to buy dresses. Jess also tried to tell the driver that we were smart and good to talk to but he didn't care very much about that.
Somehow we all managed to make it to Labadi Beach without any problems. I just want to note now that I didn't take any photos because last year's group said we shouldn't bring anything nice so I left my phone at home. I think they must have gone to the sketchy one down the road because it was a really great environment. Oh well, there's always next week.
Ghanaians are extremely friendly, so it wasn't a surprise that we were greeted by a swarm of people as soon as we came in. Some were trying to sell us bracelets, some were obviously rastas with their dreadlocks hidden beneath beanies, but the who came up to Jess and I was different.
He politely came up to welcome us and introduced himself as OJ. As is customary in Ghana, we chatted about where we're from and what we're doing with our lives. OJ said he was an actor from Nigeria, a country east of Ghana that has recently been in the news because of the Boko Haram kidnappings and shootings.
OJ got really excited when we found out we were journalists because he said he has a lot of experience and knowledge as a 38 year old African that he has had no way of sharing thus far because of the way the media often works in Ghana. It is not uncommon for journalists in Ghana and West Africa to take bribes in exchange for media coverage, something I hope I won't have to deal with here. OJ's words to me were: "I want someone to tell my story before I die."
It was really cool talking with him throughout the night and the more I listened, the more I was convinced of this man's experience and wisdom. My favorite conversation with him wasn't about corruption or poverty though - it was about the weather. He almost refused to believe that it rains almost every day in Oregon and that it gets as cold as freezing.
Aside from talking to OJ, I got to experience two other really cool things at Reggae Night. The first was walking into the ocean, which doesn't seem like a big deal considering how often I visit the Oregon Coast, but it was actually really amazing to think of where I was standing. I grew up in New York and I've swam in the Atlantic Ocean too many times to count, but here I was on the other side, thousands of miles away but still standing in the same ocean.
The second was dancing with my housemates to the live reggae band. Everyone danced with everyone, including the Ghanaians and Nigerians, and some people even got on stage to dance next to the live band. It was such a fun and carefree atmosphere, as if no one had ever had a struggle in their live. In short, is was paradise.
This morning we visited an elementary school in Nima, the community we drove through earlier this week and I wrote about in my second post. The school was tucked away in the alleyways of Nima and it would have been impossible to find if teachers from the school hadn't come out to meet us.
I don't know how I handled the amount of cuteness that was in that school. We walked into the classroom and found ourself sitting across from around 100 school children in matching purple uniforms. They were no different than children in the US - most were fidgeting, some were talking to each other and a few were fighting and it took the teacher several tries to quiet all of them down.
I'm trying to upload the videos I took of the kids' performances but the internet is extremely slow so it might be a while (I'll post an update when they're up!)
First, the Ghanaian national anthem was played, then 12 kids came out and dance a traditional African dance. There was a little girl with thin braids and beads in her hair that was particularly charismatic who would later go on to star in almost all the other performances. After the first dance, a group of between four and seven year olds recited poetry for us in both English and French. They'd start out by yelling (yes, yelling) their name, age, school name, and grade, then recite their poem in the same loud voice.
The program continued on to include the choir and a fashion show where Adorable Little Braid Girl stole the show. She modeled like a pro, holding up the edge of her skirt while she walked, smiling big and striking poses Tyra Banks would be proud of.
I caught some of the last dance the students did on tape, which I'm going to attempt to upload, but let me just say those kids can get down. Halfway through the song our group got pulled up and into the dance circle with the kids. One by one, or sometimes in pairs, they brought us into the middle to dance solos with them. Even though I know most of us were nowhere near as good as those kids, it was still a really fun time for everyone.
After the dance we gave our donations of school supplies to the students and Kaylee said a few words to them, thanking them for their performances and telling them to work hard. Then the teachers let the kids loose and soon the room was filled with little circles of little kids and obronis playing hand games. They were similar to the ones I played in middle school (Quackadillioso, Concentration, Double Double This This), just with different words.
It was almost impossible to leave the school, and not just because kids were grabbing onto my hands as I was trying to leave. They were just so happy and excited to have us there and play with us that I felt bad leaving, even though I have every intention of going back to the Nima school. Before getting on the bus, someone from the school (I'm pretty sure it was the headmaster) said we were welcome back to volunteer or teach American song or dance. They rocked at African traditional dancing but we'll see if they can handle the Cotten-Eye Joe or the Cupid Shuffle.
Note: I swear I did not force them to take this photos. Half of the kids just didn't smile for pictures. |